As you probably know, a pendulum is a weight that swings back and forth from a fixed point. Unfortunately, the pendulum symbolizes the way we’ve treated the gift of sex—going from one non-biblical extreme to another.
As I’ve mentioned before, religion has an unfortunate history of treating sex as something dirty and shameful. [...]
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Purity: Pendulum vs Plumb Line (by Kevin)
Posted in Thoughts on Waiting, tagged abstinence, legalism, premarital sex, purity, relationship advice, waiting on August 18, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
MU (Mutual Understanding) and Ambiguous Relationships (by Kevin)
Posted in Thoughts on Waiting, tagged courtship, mutual understanding, relationship mistakes, relationships, romance, True Love Waits on May 26, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
Here’s the definition(s) of ambiguous (from dictionary.com)
Ambiguous:
*open to or having several possible meanings or interpretations; equivocal: an ambiguous answer.
*of doubtful or uncertain nature; difficult to comprehend, distinguish, or classify: a rock of ambiguous character.
*lacking clearness or definiteness; obscure; indistinct: an ambiguous shape; an ambiguous future.
My students often use the phrase “MU,” meaning “mutual understanding.” [...]
Four Steps to Sabotage Your Future Marriage (by Kevin)
Posted in Thoughts on Waiting, tagged counseling, love, making wise decisions, marriage, relationships, romance on March 31, 2008 | 3 Comments »
Have Premarital Sex
If your spouse is your first and only lover, this will create an incredibly strong physical, emotional, and spiritual bond between the two of you. You simply don’t need this if you are going to sabotage your marriage. It’s much better if you engage in premarital sex. This way your spouse will not [...]
Waiting, Not in Vain (by Evangeline)
Posted in Thoughts on Waiting, tagged Lake House, Lake House quotes, love, purity, relationships, romance, singleness, True Love Waits on March 24, 2008 | 2 Comments »
How do you hold on to someone you’ve never met?
(from Lake House)
Here’s my answer:
It’s knowing and believing that there’s someone out there whom God has chosen and reserved for you… and waiting for that person, for God’s perfect time for you to meet him… reserving your heart and yourself until that time… only for that [...]
To Kiss or Not to Kiss? (by Kevin)
Posted in Images, Thoughts on Waiting, tagged dating, kiss, kissing, love, purity, relationships, sex, sexual purity, True Love Waits on March 19, 2008 | 2 Comments »
This is an interesting question that I would like to write about.
Before I start, I simply want to remind you that I base my beliefs on the Biblical commandments and principles. The Bible does clearly teach that sex before marriage is a sin (1 Thessalonians 4:2-4; Hebrews 13:4; and many other Scriptures attest to [...]